This Parenting Tip comes from the National Center for Biblical Parenting. As you consider your kids remember the words that God said to Samuel in 1 Samuel 16:
“Man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord looks on the heart.”
Practicing Servanthood at Christmas
Sometimes children believe that the whole world revolves around them. Parents, because they enjoy caring for their kids, may at times contribute to a child-centered mentality and unknowingly reinforce this misconception. Children then get the impression that parents, siblings, and even the family pets are there simply to make them happy. The result is demandingness and an unpleasant attitude.
One of the ways to counteract this tendency is to teach children to be servants and Christmas is a great time to practice. Planning and giving gifts, preparing food treats for others, setting the table, and cleaning up Christmas messes are all ways to demonstrate servanthood. You might have your children take turns giving out the gifts that are under the tree instead of just finding their own to open.
Practical Ways to Serve
Listening to others, watching family members open gifts, saying thank you, sharing, and looking for ways to help are all ideas for kids to demonstrate a servant attitude at Christmastime.
Use the word “servant” and teach children about its positive meaning in life. Talk about how being a servant is really a gift to others. After all, Jesus became a servant by becoming a man and coming to earth as our Savior (Philippians 2:5).